Well in about four hours we are off to Disney World in Florida. You might not think Disney is worth you reading about or me blogging about but this time it is. The “we” that I am referring to is my thirteen year old son, Seth, my ex-husband and his beautiful wife. Now this is what I want to blog about.
You see I am very, very proud of this relationship - actually we all are. We all like each other and many years ago my ex-husband's wife stopped being my ex-husband's wife and became my friend. So it is on this basis that we travel together, play together, dine together and even worship together. My ex is one of my best friends and I love that.
You see most relationships don't break up because of anything serious enough. Most relationships end because of stupidity, laziness and a lack of taking responsibility. When we blame anyone for our experience we will NEVER LOOK IN THE RIGHT PLACE FOR HEALING. No amount of marriage counseling can save a marriage if the individuals are looking outside or to the other for the answer.
My ex and I are able to have what we have because we each healed our own world - yes it is obvious, we did this AFTER THE MARRIAGE ENDED. Why, because I was being stupid, lazy and blaming HIM. The blessing is that we were dedicated enough to our sons to never tear each other apart and the healing has happened. For him the healing happened through years of study and Landmark Education. For me it was the study of the Science of Mind.
So off to Disney we go. Laughing together and sharing a fun and wonderful vacation.
I’ll write to you upon my return. Blessings to all.
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