Anger - not good, not bad, just is!

I have suffered my entire life around the stigma of anger. Somehow I got to my adulthood without ever understanding that anger itself is not bad. Misplaced anger may cause pain and discomfort and mess up relationships, prolonged anger is defintely the cause to physical ill health, violent anger is definitely not good.

BUT anger in and of itself is just anger. A reaction - not good, not bad - it just is. And often anger is the momentary reaction that you need in order to decide to move into action, to do something differently, to say enough is enough and to raise your standard to how you want your life to be.

WOW, how good it is to let go of my judgment of something I was feeling, thinking and experiencing on a pretty regular basis but because I held it as wrong - that made me wrong. God knows the last thing I need is another reason to feel wrong. Looking back though, I now understand how much discomfort I experienced in my life, had to do with the criticism I held about feeling angry and now I see that the criticism and making myself wrong was the pain and the anger itself.

YIKES, while finding freedom for myself, I must also take an authentic look at what misleading messages I have given to my sons. I'm certain there will be something for me to clean up with them. And again I remember: before enlightment, chop wood, carry water; after enlightment, chop wood, carry water. So now I get to take my freedom and powerfully share it with my sons.

PHEW - what a gosh darn relief to get this one. This one was so deeply, deeply embedded that I could not see my way through until now. Now, I do not want to walk around being angry but at heast if and when it happens, I can anticipate using it much more creatively as a catalyst for change. Oh, self-awareness is such an important and key element for our state of happiness. Even as I write this outloud to you, I sense a deep shift in the paradigm of me, Michelle. Right here I get to embrace greater freedom.

I declare for myself: My moments of anger are an opportunity for change and I handle them with absolute grace!

A Jolt of Reality or a Letter of Love - You choose!

Deep calls to deep!

 

 

I have been away from blogging for such a long time, for so many different reasons and none of them matter. During my absence Blogger has made some very definite improvements upon its service and I was thrilled to see that they now make it very easy for the authors to track the amount of individuals who are reading the blog. As I became aware of the number of readers, I was jolted once again into a deeper sense of responsibility for my written as well as my spoken word.



You know my name, and you probably know what I do for a living. Some of you know me personally, but in Truth, I am the Authority of all Good or I am the void of any good. Why because it all has to do with point of view and perspective. How you see me and how you see yourself determines your reality. This is why coaches practice the coaching skill of re-framing of reality with their clients all the time. Life is not determined by the details but by how we name the details, approve of them, disapprove of them. Often when one is challenged with a loved one or with a situation, I will say to them: Stop objecting to them or to it because as we object to someone or something we create the rub that causes the pain.

So now that I know how many of you are reading my posts, I offer you this following letter - not from me, Michelle or my personality but from the non-local of me, the me that is Infinite and Eternal. May this letter touch your heart and your soul as Love calls to Love and Deep calls to Deep.

Dear Being of Love,

I see you. I see the all of you; your total beauty, your amazing strength, the compassionate love that you are and the healing Light that you bring to this world. Yes, I see the Truth of you even when you don't see it yourself. I see your fullness, when you are feeling limited. I recognize your total health even while you are in pain and discomfort. I see you as fully prospered and expressed even as you struggle to pay your bills. I see you surrounded in love, love of self, love in relationships and the love of Spirit. This is your Truth. This is who you are.

You were born perfect and perfect you will always be. You were born deserving a full-measure of life's good. Please, please believe this; you are perfect as you are. You are not now or never will be limited to anything other than you willingness to accept your full measure of good. Close your eyes every day, go into the depth of your being, move past resistance, move past stories, move past fear and lack until you touch that place in you that has never been hurt, harmed or injured in any way. That core of your being which is your source of all good.

You are enough, worthy of all your heart's desires no matter what you have been told. Very simply, remember to declare: I accept my good and my greater good. I accept the full measure of my Divine Birthright, fully expressed in ways known and not known and I allow Love to be the guiding principle throughout my life. I am Love full expressed. This is my Truth, now.

So beautiful being, if this is acceptable to you, please leave a comment so I know you are listening and together we will partner for a more full YOU.

All my love,

Michelle